I help overgiving women attract healthy masculine men💘

Stop chasing love & start receiving it ✨

So, I heard you’re single, smart & successful but when it comes to love—things feel hard..

Likely because..

You consistently date ‘the wrong guys’ aka the emotionally unavailable, noncommittal men

You find yourself in relationships that feel one-side and like you are constantly chasing him..

You fantasize, obsess or overthink the men you’re dating or the men in your past

Your heart drops & your mind spirals when you keep having men ‘leave’ after 3 dates or 3 months of dating

You try to fix or change men by ‘being there for them;’ finding yourself working overtime

You lower your standards so men don’t leave you

You feel betrayed by men and like you can’t fully trust them or relationships

You feel this empty void inside you even though you love other parts of your life

You wish to be chosen and cherished by a man

You find yourself in situationships because you worry that you’re being too needy, too difficult or too much

You pretend to be okay with things (even though you aren’t) so you don’t lose the men you’re getting to know

You spend most time in dating or relationships in anxiety or fear of losing the connection

You knowingly and unknowingly dismiss the red flags

You find yourself dating for potential

You secretly dream of being saved or rescued by men

You grew up in a family that doesn’t talk about their feelings

You pretend to be ‘chill’ and easy going

You ‘feel bad’ when you try to set boundaries and worry about men’s feelings over your own

You struggle asking for help or what you want/need in love or relationships

The truth is: your relationships are a mirror🪞

Upgrade who are being—to shift who you attract

Hey girl, I’m Cynthia!

I’m your dating psychotherapist & coach that’s so passionate about helping women attract love with emotionally available, high quality men. I’ve spent the last 12 years learning & applying my extensive knowledge of psychology, spirituality & relationships to heal & guide not only my clients, but myself.

You see, I’m no different than you. I’ve had my fair share of unsettling relationship experiences:

✔️chasing emotionally unavailable men

✔️settling for breadcrumbs

✔️push-pull situationships

✔️spiraling after being ghosted

✔️a toxic trauma bond

But today, I’ve healed & released my past. I am oozing in high self-worth & feel so confident in my dating & relationship life.

Perhaps you have already tried…

Traditional talk therapy.. which helps you cope, vent and feel better for a bit but it’s not giving a love life transformation

Swiping on the dating apps..but noticing matches that seem uninteresting and not like a good fit

Playing it cool and being easy-going.. which ends up making you feel depleted, used and still not having the commitment you want

Trying to get men to change or make things ‘work’.. but you still feel confused and annoyed why men don’t show up how you want them to

Listening to your favorite Tarot Card reader.. who gives you hope that he’ll come back or love will work out but it doesn’t seem to happen they say it will

Practicing detachment.. but you feel like you’re pretending to be unbothered vs actually being that way

Googling “Why he pulled away..” which just keeps making you spiral

..the truth is that trying these things are surface level work. Which is why my work goes deep 🤯

This work helps your scared, inner girl crawl out of her curled up ball and approach love as a soft, feminine & confident woman.💘

Your love life after working with me..

✅ You hear your phone ping with a text by your emotionally available, husband material-boyfriend setting up a dinner reservations for Friday at 8

✅ You say ‘no’ to casual or last minute ‘dates’ because you are looking for real deal effort & know that its out there

✅ You feel confident & secure in attracting high quality men

✅ You confidently set boundaries and embody your standards without guilt, fear or second-guessing

✅ You date men who can physically & emotionally hold all of you

✅ You have a high sense of self worth & feeling oh so deserving of the love you want

✅ You’re able to lean back and stay secure in dating while men actively pursue you

✅ You’re able to trust yourself & trust the process of the Universe

✅ You’re comfortable feeling & expressing your raw emotions on your own or with others

✅You’re feel worthy enough to be pursued and cherished in love and dating

✅ You’re feeling fully nourished by yourself & life that having a man by your side is just the cherry on top 🍒

✅ You feel safe opening up your heart to deep intimacy & bonding

✅ You believe you’ll be chosen while also doing the choosing

✅You’re comfortable speaking up for what you want or need in a partnership

✅ You feel comfortable receiving support, help & being taken care of

✅ You prioritize your self pleasure & self care knowing you’re your best self

✅You stop over-giving or trying to figure things out and let things be

✅You’re able to discern who is right or wrong for you

✅You’re able to gracefully ebb & flow in the early stages of dating

✅You’re able to self reflect where you’re at and what you need

“Confidence is not ‘Will they like me?’ Confidence is ‘I’ll be fine, even if they don’t.”

Common Love Blocks

Common Love Blocks

Abandonment Wounds

Rejection Wounds

Childhood Wounds

Unresolved Breakups

Relationship Trauma

Toxic & One-sided Relationships

Anxious Attachment Style

Avoidant Attachment Style

Disorganized Attachment Style

People Pleasing

Codependency

Self Abandonment

Low Self Worth/Self Esteem

Fear of Being Alone

Father & Mother Wounds

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